They babble to each other, they laugh at each other, and they hold hands while they are together. One time I tried to put Elise to bed before Lucy, and she cried and cried until I brought Lucy to bed too. I think part of the reason they are so easy is that they have each other. Sometimes when they are falling asleep, they play with each other’s hands as they drift off.  I’ve been meaning to take pictures of it for a while, but when I got my camera out the other day, I thought a video would be more fun. I love having twins. I honestly wasn’t sure that I would. I can’t picture my life without two babies, these two in particular.

Twins-5 months from Erica Holland on Vimeo.

Also, I love they they suck their thumbs (or fingers, in Lucy’s case). I know, it may develop into a horrible habit and they may have crooked teeth and maybe they’ll still be sucking their thumbs when they go to college, but for now they sleep 12+ hours at night and I don’t have to endanger the whole family by trying to reach back and hand them binkies in the car. Plus, it’s so dang cute.

This picture Brad took really makes me smile; it is so real. I love that Annika is trying to cheer up Elise by feeding her a peanut butter sandwich.

For the benefit of any of you out there who are wanting to take a growing family on a long vacation, here are some of the things we learned (mostly through trial and error):

1. If you can con an unsuspecting couple without children to join you on your vacation, you will not regret it. They might, but the addition of four extra hands will make your life much, much easier and might just save your sanity. If your toddler is absolutely in love with these friends it makes having them around that much better. Thank you, thank you, thank you Paige and Andy.

2. You might plan really cool trips to see things like Roman arenas, gladiators, medieval castles, giant catapults, and rolling fields of lavender. That’s great, as long as these are things that you want to see and you are willing to deal with crying, hot, tired children along the way. Just know that your kids will be much more interested in playing with rocks at the beach, watching ants, climbing on (and through) rocks, jumping on the hotel bed, eating ice cream, and riding carousels. Most of these things can be done without driving all over France. Also, the lavender may not yet be in bloom. Lesson learned.

She hasn't stopped talking about this ride - she felt just like Cinderella

3. Eating dinner at a nice French restaurant might sound like a good idea. Your mouth might water at the thought of all that fresh seafood, local herbs, and summer vegetables roasted to perfection. Your husband might warn you repeatedly that eating out with all the kids is just going to be a hassle. But, eventually your husband will give in, because he is a great guy and wants to make you happy. As you sit at the restaurant with two crying babies and a toddler who keeps knocking over her glass and getting spaghetti sauce everywhere  you will realize that you would have been better off getting a baguette, a quiche and a slew of pastries and eating at a park. It’s a good thing we only ate out once. It left us more money to spend on pastries with raspberries and pistachio cream, decadent chocolate eclairs, treats in various animal shapes that Annika was happy to devour, and plenty of fresh local produce from the markets.  Eating has always been a prominent part of our traveling. That didn’t change this time, but we did learn to avoid restaurants.

4. If you are traveling with three children, only one of whom can walk (and not very far), ignore manufacturers’ safety recommendations and do whatever you have to do to get them around. Creativity is essential. One time we even tried to cram both babies into one seat in the stroller. They weren’t particularly happy about it, but it worked.

5. Spending time at the beach is the perfect vacation with kids. We could have stayed there forever. Annika was hesitant at first, but she warmed up quickly and never wanted to leave. We swam, splashed, built sandcastles, played catch, ate sandy food, and then did it all over again. No matter what the local pool says, water wings are amazing. Annika was so proud that she could swim by herself, and even though we always kept a close eye on her, those water wings gave us a couple of free hands and enough peace of mind so that we could give the babies more attention. It also helped Annika feel more confident and made playing in the water much more fun. The babies were content to lounge in the shade with an occasionally salty dip. There were a fair share of topless sunbathers, but it was more a curiosity than a scandal. I don’t think Annika even noticed. She sees me nursing so often that it probably didn’t even strike her as odd.

Elise is in pink, Lucy is in green

6. Besides the beach, we decided to go to Provence because it was supposed to be beautiful. Though it was different than we thought (more desert, fewer rolling hills of purple lavender) Annika loved pointing out flowers, castles, birds, trees, boats, mountains, and “peoples.”

7. She also loved her DVD player. We wouldn’t have survived without it.

Our family, 4 hours into an 11 hour drive that should have been 8.

Oh, and I keep getting requests to clarify who is who. Elise is on the left (and is actually the better sitter). Lucy is on the right (and tipped over soon after this picture was taken).

This is a four day weekend for us, and then Brad takes leave starting Tuesday. We are leaving on Friday for a much anticipated week long trip to Provence, France. There is a lot more sun and water in our near future!

And, on another note, Happy Father’s Day! I have a wonderful Father and all of my girls adore their “Opa”. I have many happy memories of riding bikes, playing at the beach, working in the garden, and backpacking with my Dad. He was my biggest fan and I could pick out his voice over my coaches’ when I was playing basketball. His example has inspired me to be a harder worker, a more loving mother, and a more devoted follower of Christ.

Opa and newborn Annika

A fun grandpa, no?

If I can say so, I think I got a pretty good husband who is a wonderful Dad as well. I don’t know if you can  tell from the pictures on the blog, but Brad is the “fun” one in our house. Annika has an acute sense of hearing when it comes to the door downstairs and she is usually rushing down the hall yelling “Daddy’s home!” before I even know what is happening. He likes to pretend that he really wants boys, but I know our girls have him wrapped around their fingers.

This is from a month or so ago -- Brad is now "Cap'n Holland"

]]> http://www.ericaholland.com/2010/06/20/splash/feed/ 5 http://www.ericaholland.com/2010/06/11/arent-they-wonderful/ http://www.ericaholland.com/2010/06/11/arent-they-wonderful/#comments Fri, 11 Jun 2010 12:36:34 +0000 Erica Holland Photography http://www.ericaholland.com/?p=698 I could just eat them up. Annika tries. Literally. Does anyone out there have any tips on reforming a biter?

I love watching these girls grow up. Lucy is my social girl — my friend Kelly came over the other day and she laughed and laughed for Kelly. I have yet to get her to laugh for me. Elise is stronger and loves to stand. You stand her up on your lap and she gets a great big smile. You can tell she is so proud of herself and she does not want to sit down again. Both girls love Annika, despite the overabundance of “love” they get from her. You would think that they would start to cry when they see her coming, but instead they give her great big smiles. That makes Annika so happy, and she’ll come running to tell me “Mommy! Lucy and Elise smiled at me! They like me!” They are old enough now to sit in their bumbo chairs, and Annika usually keeps them entertained while I fix dinner. I am hoping this is a good sign for the months and years to come.

We can’t imagine our life without these beautiful girls.