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Camping in the Coldness

*I’m letting my girls help with the blogging today. The title was Annika’s and I’ll let Lucy and Elise pitch in too. They want colors, so we will color coordinate.

Annika: Right when I first saw it snowing, it was just snowing a tiny bit. But then it started snowing like a snowstorm. And I was so excited! But the further we got on the trip, it wasn’t so snowy.

Lucy: We tried to ice skate

Elise: Daddy is scared of the snow

I was more than a little worried as we loaded into our car Friday morning and the snow started to come down. I kept thinking “what kind of crazy people are we, taking our small children camping while there is a blizzard outside?!”

I’m at the tent. We had fun roasting marshmallows. 

It was warm in the tent, even though it was cold outside. 

I liked sleeping in my sleeping bag. 

My fears eased up when we arrived in Capitol Reef with the sun shining brightly. It was still cold, but we were all smiles.

This hike went to an arch. And we had so much fun at the arch, I almost didn’t want to leave. But then we did. My favorite part was seeing the arch and seeing the river.

My favorite part was eating M&Ms.

My favorite part was eating M&Ms and camping and going over the bridge.

The hike to Hickman bridge was so beautiful in the evening light. As I was looking back through my pictures, I realized that I must be the most annoying Mom to hike with; I’m constantly making my kids stop for a picture. I have a picture for every 10 feet of trail on this hike. The light was just so wonderful, and I was just so happy to be outside with my family.  They’re good sports to put up with me.

Traveling with kids can be exasperating at times, but wonderful in so many ways. It’s funny – we’re constantly pointing out to our kids all the things they should find interesting. “Look at that arch! Look how high the canyon walls are! Do you see those Native American petroglyphs?” Yet my girls were most entertained playing in the sand and rocks, and climbing up walls. Kids are a good reminder to slow down, and appreciate the beautiful and enjoyable things right in front of us. They force me to remember that pushing to the destination is not as important as enjoying the experience along the way.

Since we left our house in a blizzard, and the forecast called for below freezing temperatures, we were more than a little worried about the weather. I even called to make sure there was a hotel with room available, just in case we were freezing. It really wasn’t so bad during the day (as long as we were wearing long underwear, hats and gloves), but it did get quite chilly at night. We rushed to get dinner warmed up, but even though it started at a boil, my soup was freezing again before I could eat it. I huddled with the girls around the fire while Brad set up the tent, and we roasted marshmallows, which was unanimously the favorite part of the weekend for our girls.

I really liked the fire, it was warm, and roasting marshmallows. 

 

With blankets piled under us and a down comforter on top of my down sleeping bag, it was actually one of my best nights of sleep in a tent – ever. Annika climbed into Brad’s sleeping bag sometime in the early morning, so I’m not sure his experience was as enjoyable as mine.  The early morning was the coldest part of our trip – so Brad just turned the heat on in the car, and the girls were warm and toasty while they ate their breakfast. Problem solved.

That’s silly that we had S’mores in the morning.

Yes, Annika, it is silly. But we were camping. And it was cold.  And who doesn’t want s’mores at 9 am?

I liked when we were going in the little bit wider canyons, but not the super skinny ones.  I got stuck on the way back down.

Saturday morning started with a hike up to Cohab Canyon – once you climb up into the canyon there are a few little tiny slot canyons to explore. It might have been my favorite part of the weekend. I think Annika enjoyed it too – until she got stuck and scraped her side, and I haven’t heard the end of it since. It’s a terrible wound, you know, and requires new bandages a couple times a day. 

The pie was yummy, but Elise didn’t let me have any of her pie.

The current location of the campground was once the site of a very isolated Mormon pioneer community. One of the farmhouses still stands, and now serves as part museum, part gift shop where they sell justifiably famous pies. We got two and they didn’t last long. On our way home we asked the girls what their favorite part of the trip was, and Lucy was quick to respond that eating pie was her favorite part. She takes after her Mom. Food makes or breaks a vacation, you know.

 

Capitol Reef was fun because it had a little bit of everything – Native American ruins and petroglyphs, pioneer cabins, slot canyons, arches, and some great hikes.

 

There is nothing like camping and hiking to completely wear out your kids.

I liked the Indian carvings. My Mom thought there weren’t going to be any, but there were actually some Indian carvings, and also some Pioneer names on the walls.

We squeezed in a scenic drive and one last hike before we had to head home. In Capitol Reef they have two roads that actually drive into the slot canyons. I’ve hiked a lot of canyons, but I found it a little disconcerting to drive my car past the sign that warned of flash floods. We didn’t get flooded, we had a cold, yet enjoyable hike, and after filling up on some gourmet burgers in the tiny town of Torrey, we made it home late Saturday night. Not bad for a weekend getaway.

Mom - I have sooooo missed your blogs! Thank you for putting this up because it made me a very happy mom/oma. I thought you were crazy for going camping because I wouldn’t have left the house with it snowing like that and a forecast of 18 degrees overnight. But I can see that the world has probably passed me by on many occasions. You are wonderful parents and these pictures are priceless. Your kids will thank you a million times over someday!

Cristine - Great pics and I loved hearing what the girls had to say!!! Looks like you had a blast!

Monica - I have been missing your posts also! That hike was beautiful! I actually want to come visit you now for that hike but minus the cold! You know me and cold… And I love the pic with you in it!!!!

Taniel - I keep looking at your pictures over and over again. You are right, the light is beautiful, as are your photos. You have come a long way as a photographer, and I miss your blog because even though I know what is going on in your life most the time, I love to see your photos and I love to read your writing. Thanks for sharing, maybe we should have come with you!! Looks like it was an amazing trip!

Pete Mitchell - Thanks for sharing. I like your writing and love the pictures. Most people would have passed on the opportunity to go but you guys made the right decision. You have recorded some wonderful memories.

Nate - That is amazing! It almost makes me want to go camping… Almost…

A Bookworm Birthday

Annika, our resident party planner, threw around a lot of ideas for birthday party themes in the month or two leading up to Lucy and Elise’s birthday. (Because, according to Annika, you can’t have a party without some kind of theme – even for Brad and my birthdays she’ll ask “what kind of party are you going to have?) She was pushing for a Cars party, we talked about a pirate party, and I’m pretty sure there were ideas for a princess party. The twins agreed with whatever idea Annika presented to them most recently, so they really weren’t much help. I started thinking hard about what my girls actually love, and they love books. When we were staying at Brad’s parents house this summer if we ever wondered where Elise had gone we could find her sitting on the floor in one of the extra rooms surrounded by a big pile of books. We go to the library at least once a week, bring home a huge bag of books, and have them all read by the next time we go back. A book birthday party sounded like the perfect idea, and with the number of books we have laying around our house, decorating was a breeze.

I’m not sure I have too much else to say about their birthday except that it was the best kind of day. Brad was home, we spent time at the pool, we opened presents slowly through the day, and then spent the evening with friends and family. It was perfect, really. I hope that Lucy and Elise enjoyed it as much as I did. Here’s how to throw an awesome birthday party:

Balloons and streamers make anything feel festive. Good morning, birthday girl!

Open one present at a time, and enjoy it before opening another one. We opened presents all day, and I loved it.  Annika saved up her own money and picked out this present for them – it was a new silverware set for each of them. She has good taste.

Decorate with what you have. I pulled out my favorite books and favorite toys and printed pictures of the twins reading. I made a big banner that said “Happy Birthday” to match the “Read” one, but forgot to take a picture. I just had to find a book on our shelves that Brad didn’t want and tear out pages to make a banner.

Go easy on the activities. They’re only three, right? We stamped canvas library bags, which may have even been a bit of a stretch, but it worked. Annika designed the “pin the book on the bookworm” game. Pin the (fill in the blank) is her favorite party game ever. When you include adults, and do a lot of spinning it is extra fun. But be warned, it is a bit advanced for the under two crowd. We blindfolded poor Noa, pointed him in the right direction and he just kept walking until he ran smack into the door. It was one of the more hilarious moments of the night.

If you can include a silly accessory as part of your favor bag, do it. Snapping pictures of everyone in their bookworm glasses was a highlight of the night.

If you put out a bowl of gummy worms, be prepared for the kids to do nothing but stand next to the bowl and eat gummy worms until its gone.

Let your kids do what they really want to do. I shouldn’t have been surprised that even with friends running around and games to play, Lucy and Elise just wanted to sit on someone’s lap and read books. Lucy and Jan are best buds, and Lucy couldn’t have been happier.

Those party favors are super fun, but we learned they tend to accumulate spit. Jordan’s face may actually be one of real terror, since he knows he is about to be sprayed with toddler spittle.

Give yourself lots of time to make even the simplest of cakes. Buy an extra cake mix in case the first one fails to come out of the pan. Or just enlist your husband to finish the frustrating task of decorating the cake. These are all lessons I learned the hard way, but Brad came through for me (again) and I think the cake turned out great.

I never buy cereal anymore because we all love it so much and eat it so quickly. It’s easier just not to have it around. But when we asked Lucy and Elise what they wanted for their birthday dinner they both said “cereal!” I protested, but Brad insisted that it was their birthday, and we can let them eat what they want. I think Lucy was pleased (and I’m guessing that Brad was too. He love cereal more than anyone else.)

Well, there you have it. How to throw an amazing three year old birthday party!

Now I have to get working on Annika’s party. She has some high expectations and has already created lists full of party plans for me. Wish me luck!

Thank you to everyone who came and celebrated our little girls’ big day with us.

And thanks to Taniel, who gave me almost all of the pictures from that night. It was nice to be at the party, without worrying about taking pictures, but I am so, so glad I have these. Thanks, Taniel!

Amy Lehto - That looks like they had an amazing day. Your girls are getting so grown up and I am happy to know that they enjoy reading. I hope that continues throughout their lives. I like that you said to let the kids do what they want to do because I think so often as adults we have expectations and try too hard to entertain them the entire time when they just want to play or read.
Anne of Green Gables…oh my. Seeing that book brought back so many memories. I am excited for the day that I get to share that series with my little girl.
Thanks for sharing the party and I hope that everyone is doing well.

Deja - This looks so amazing! I want to hire Annika to plan my birthday. Or better yet, I’d like one just like this.

Cristine - You throw the BEST parties!!!!! Love, love, love it!

Oma - Wish I could have been there to read stories and eat gummy worms. We will read lots of books next time I visit!

Jessica - A. Maze. Ing.

Ellie Belly

We check new music CDs out from the library every week and a couple of weeks ago we were listening to one in the car when we heard an artist singing, in a lovely Irish accent, what appeared to be a song addressed to “Ellie Belly.” We couldn’t believe it. We call Elise “Ellie Belly” all the time, but we didn’t think anyone else used that nickname. Elise especially was so happy that there was a song with her name in it. We were a bit disappointed when checked the CD case and found that she was actually singing “Ally Bally.” The accent threw us all off. Oh well. We sing “Ellie Belly” to our Elise at bedtime now, even though Annika always reminds us that we are singing it wrong.

Elise is our most outgoing child. She is the least afraid of trying new things, and learns quickly. When we all went ice skating a few weeks ago it was Elise, not Annika, who ventured out on her own first and who insisted on doing it herself, without the aid of the walker. She is also our most athletic, and impresses us every time when we go hiking, snowshoeing, or rock climbing. She loves animals, and calls the neighborhood cat (who we find on our porch every night) “my favorite kitty.” Even when she shows an animal a bit too much love, and she gets nipped or scratched she’ll say “Hey! I think he likes me!” She also loves coloring, and carries around a little mini composition notebook and a pen all day, making notes and scribbles. Her artwork is abstract and bold – her hand eye coordination is as good as Lucy’s,but she is not interested in drawing people the way Lucy is. She loves Legos and Playmobil and sitting and reading books to herself. She gets along very well with Annika and is happy anytime she can follow the big kids around. She let me straighten her hair last week, and then kept going back to look at it in the mirror – she felt so grown up. She doesn’t like to cuddle the way Lucy does, but she is extremely attached to her thumb. We are working on breaking her of the habit, and she is doing pretty well. She is the least sensitive of our three girls, but throws the biggest tantrums. We love our spunky little (big) girl.

1. What is your favorite color? Blue.

2. What is your favorite food? Cereal. 

3. What is your favorite toy? My stuffed animals. 

4. What is your favorite TV show? Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. 

5. What is your favorite thing to wear? A twirly dress. 

6. Who is your best friend? Daddy! 

7. What is your favorite song? Ellie Belly.

8. What is your favorite thing to do outside? Play. 

9. What is your favorite movie? Brave.

10. What do you sleep with? Animals, Tiny (her little dog), and my kitty.

11. What do you want to be when you grow up? ….a grown up!

Cristine - Love it!!!! She is so adorable! I love that she wants to be a grown up when she grows up! ;) Happy birthday sweet girl!

Oma - We love you Elise! I wish we could have been at your party, but we will make sure we party every time we’re together instead. Three years old is the greatest!

Lizzie - Erica, my mom asked all of us kids similar questions on our birthdays and kept them all in a book. To this day, we love getting them out and reading through them together. It is probably my favorite of our family traditions so I’m so glad you’re doing it for the girls.

I’m also so glad Lucy wants to be a dinosaur when she grows up :)

Hope to see you soon.

Makana - I have got to remember to do this! Love the pictures and the reminder