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Traveling with Toddlers: United States Edition

I don’t have much experience camping in November, and as we left our house in the snow and drove for hours through snow blanketed hills, Brad and I asked ourselves repeatedly if we were crazy. Being in school has some serious perks, and one of them is the frequency of breaks and long weekends. On this particular weekend, the week before Thanksgiving, we decided to drive 4 hours south to Zion National Park for some hiking and camping.

Our fears were alleviated when we arrived at a nearly empty campground in a canyon still filled with trees bearing red, orange and yellow leaves. It turns out that November is an ideal time to visit the park – the crowds are gone, you can drive through the canyon, the leaves are beautiful, and while chilly, it is still warm enough for camping. It was a short weekend, so we got started right away.

Here are some new traveling with toddlers tips:

1. Be aware of hikes that have steep drop-offs. Toddlers like to run and skip and are notoriously clumsy. You will find yourself squeezing their hands tightly and feeling a bit panicked until you reach more level ground. The kids weren’t at all nervous – even though Annika cried the entire drive to the trailhead because the road was so high up.

2. If your toddler (or preschooler) wants to buy a hat (or shirt or backpack) that you can’t stand – buy it and tell her that it is her new hiking hat. Then she’ll be excited to hike and camp because she gets to wear her hat. And you’ll only have a few pictures (or a lot) with the ugly hat – but awesome hiker poses make it ok.

 

3. Even toddlers can appreciate incredible views, but don’t underestimate the fun of a rock jungle gym and a natural sandbox.

4. Campfires are wonderful, and are the cure for almost everything when you are camping. Unless you are Lucy – and then the sound of the wood popping is terrifying.

5. Make sure you take everyone to the bathroom before you all get in your sleeping bags. And make sure they are really done going to the bathroom. Otherwise, you’ll get all undressed and zipped up only to unzip, redress, put shoes on and walk to the bathroom. Twice, if you’re lucky. By that time everyone else in the tent will be asleep, which results in Annika saying “Hey, Mom! It’s like a mommy -daughter date!”

6. S’mores are a totally acceptable breakfast food.

7. Sticks are the best toys, and you can never have too many rocks.

8. Finally, being in the outdoors with your children can really bring out the best in them, and you’ll be surprised at how they exceed your expectations. We wanted to hike up the river a little bit into the Virgin River Narrows. Brad and I have done it a couple of times, but we wanted to show our girls; it is one of our favorite places in the world. However, it was November, and it was cold and rainy, and the water was a frigid 45 degrees. Anyone else we saw going up the river had on drysuits, special shoes, and had hiking poles. We had rolled up jeans with dry clothes in our bag. We put the twins in the backpack and crossed the river once, carrying Annika. It was so cold it hurt, and as the rain came down we decided we wouldn’t go any further. But Annika was determined. She wanted to hike in the river. After hearing her beg and plead, we decided we would put on her water shoes, roll up her pants and let her try it. It was so cold we were sure she would take a few steps in and then want to go home. But she didn’t. Even though the water was up to the top of her legs at times, she just kept going. It wasn’t until none of us could feel our extremities anymore that she consented to turning back. We are amazed at the girl she is growing up to be.

Lucy and Elise weren’t to be outshone either. On each of the three hikes we did, they hiked at least a mile – sometimes more. Their little legs just kept on going!

This last week Brad accepted an internship offer with DigitalGlobe – a satellite imagery company based in Longmont, CO. We’ll only be 20 minutes outside of Boulder and an hour from Rocky Mountain National Park. We are looking forward to spending an entire summer in the mountains with our tough little girls.

Emily J - I love this post! Camping and hiking with the Hollands is awesome and I love how your girls are growing up. One of our favorite vacations is doing just what you did. We also loved hiking Mesa Verde Park. You’ll have to check it out since you are headed to Colorado! Congratulations!! We sure miss you guys.

Mom - I can go to bed now with dreams of these sweet girls dancing in my head. . . or should I make that hiking? Never would have believed Annika would be doing this even a year ago. Being back home has been good for her.

Marilee - Amazing! I wouldn’t have been so brave… and yet look what a great experience for your family. I guess it is time for me to buck up and do more with my kids. I love the pictures! You do an incredible job Erica. I’m sad to hear about Brad’s intern, of course we should have known it was coming. You’ll be missed!

Cristine - I love your posts!!!! Looks like you guys had a great time! Love Annika’s hiking pose!!!

makana - we went in Oct! We should have coordinated! :)
love the pictures (as always) and I was laughing right out loud with your tips too! You should write a book, ha!

Mary Anne - Such incredible pictures! I am totally impressed with Annika’s determination to cross the river. You guys are raising some lucky ducks. And I’m going to try and remember that advice about the hat. You’re so insightful :)

A Royal Affair

Before Thanksgiving is here, I want to share our Halloween photos. I don’t love Halloween, but I do enjoy getting dressed up, and my kids adored trick or treating. (But really, free candy? Who wouldn’t love trick or treating?!) We had an extra fun Halloween because my Dad surprised the girls by coming for a visit on the tail end of a business trip. He even went to great lengths to put together his own Halloween costume, and showed up at our door in costume. What a treat! Brad ended up having an intramural soccer game that night (thank you, BYU, for scheduling intramural games on Halloween night!), so I was glad to have my Dad’s help taking the girls trick or treating.

I only have a couple more years of being able to tell my kids what to be for Halloween, so I think I’ll take advantage of family costumes as long as I can. Lucy and Elise still talk about being jesters. Unfortunately, they also still talk about me being a witch. It’s a little awkward when we meet new people and they exclaim “my Mommy is a witch!” I’ll have to take that into consideration next time around.

One of our neighbors is a photographer, and instead of handing out candy he took pictures of everyone in costume and then gave a link to download the photo on his website. Awesome! Brad finished his game in time to join us for the last few houses and a photo together. I had to document Brad’s willingness to wear a sparkly headpiece and tights in the name of a themed Halloween costume.

We’re still working through the candy. I thought I was being a good Mom by hiding the candy and restricting it to a few times a day. Instead, my kids have come to expect a piece of candy every time they finish a meal. Next year I think I’ll just let them eat themselves sick on one day and then be done with it.

Mckenzie - Wow! You have the coolest dad! I love the family picture!

Cristine - Your family is AWESOME!

Mom - I haven’t seen these pictures–can you send them to me? Love them.

Stacy - Wow, did you make these costumes? Holy cow.

Gratitude Daily: Dad and Brad

While I love my kids in costumes, and taking them trick or treating was the highlight of their year, I’m glad Halloween is over. I’ve had enough fake blood, death, and monsters and I’m ready to move on to better holidays. Like Thanksgiving. And since Halloween apparently gets a whole month, I think Thanksgiving should too. So, I’m starting today -

Today I am grateful for good men in my life. Not just your average guys – but dedicated, hard working, selfless men. The kind of men who are not above doing dishes, changing diapers, and fixing dinners (every weekend.) The kind of men who push me to be my best self, who just listen when I cry, and who make me laugh everyday. They say you are likely to marry a man like your father. Lucky me! I have a great father, and I have a great husband.

Brad is away this weekend interviewing, and anytime he is gone, I am more grateful for the times he is here. He still thinks to call, multiple times a day, just because he knows it makes me happy. He’s good like that.

Conveniently, my Dad is here visiting this weekend. I am grateful not only for my relationship with my Dad, but to see my girls’ relationship with their Opa. It’s been a happy weekend full of giggles and hugs in the Holland household.

I’ve re-written this post a hundred times trying to do my dad and my husband justice without getting too sappy. I’m not sure I’ve succeeded, but you get the idea – I am grateful for my Dad and for my best friend.

Taniel - This is a nice tribute. I love my brother-in-law and my dad as well. I love your picture of opa and Elise…or is it Lucy. hmmm. Regardless, great photo.

Becky Pitcher - This post and pictures are so cute! Yes, my family lives in SLC. Are you guys in Utah, too? I can see very familiar looking mountains in the back of lots of your photos. :)
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