The Holland Family Blog » Erica Holland Photography and Family Happenings

A Stranger in my Own Country

A week ago today we packed up the last of our possessions, and then loaded 8 bags, 3 carseats, a stroller, and our children onto a plane in Germany and headed across the ocean. After two more flights we finally landed in Tallahasse and collapsed into our beds, exhausted, after 24 hours of traveling. (On the plus side, jet lag is a non-issue if your kids stay up that whole time.)

After a week in the United States I’m adjusting, but still find myself occasionally startled by differences. Watching my children discover this country for the first time is entertaining. Here are a few examples:

When we woke up our first morning here, Lucy rolled out of bed onto the carpeted floor. Then she just stood there for a good 30 seconds or more, wiggling her toes in the carpet. “Wow!” she kept saying “it’s so soft!”

In Europe, all the light switches are flat and you just push them to turn the light on and off. Annika still can’t find the light switches in this house, and I hurt my hand the other day when I hit one instead of flipping it.

Our children are delighted by ice and fascinated by the ice and water machine in the refrigerator. Yesterday I came out of the bathroom to find that all three of my girls were completely, soaking wet and were trailing water all around the house. When we asked them where they got so wet they informed us it was from the fridge. They had been playing in the water dispenser, and the kitchen was flooded!

We were prepping our kids by telling them that everything in America is bigger – the cars are bigger, the roads are bigger, the stores are bigger, the shopping carts are bigger, the houses are bigger, the refrigerators are bigger, and even the people are bigger! We took them all to Costco and they were amazed. Big carts that fit two kids! Huge parking lot with hundreds of cars! Then I found a giant bag of Craisins and showed Annika. “See, Annika, everything here is bigger!” She just started giggling and couldn’t stop; she had never seen such a huge bag and was so amused to find that things in America really were so big.

Now I realize that not all of Europe is cold, and that not all of America is hot, but the biggest (and best) change for our family has been the warmer weather. After not seeing the sun consistently for a few years it has been kind of amazing to wake up to sunshine every morning. I thought I would hate the heat and humidity, but it hasn’t been bad at all. (Though the ants I could do without.) We’ve been playing hard and enjoying all the activities sunshine affords. My kids are in heaven with so much space to play and the chance to go outside all the time. I love seeing them dirty and sweaty and happy.

I know I’m home in my own country, but I feel as if I’ve been traveling. New places, new weather, new food, new culture. There are big trucks, bbq joints, palm trees, unfamiliar bugs, accents I’m not accustomed to, and really, really big stores. So I’ve been trying to experience it and photograph it just like we have been on a European vacation. Here’s how we travel with kids in the South United States!

As far as we found, Europe does not have swampy rivers with Alligators. This is definitely something your kids should experience.

 

Our children may have been used to eclairs, savory crepes, and maybe even schnitzel, but fried okra, field peas with snaps, creamed corn, bbq pork with coleslaw, and sweet cornbread were new tastes and a welcome experience. Maybe we’ll try alligator before we leave?

A trip to Orlando gave us the chance to visit family we hadn’t seen since our children were born, a trip to Cocoa beach, and a day at Sea World. Even if Sea World isn’t your thing, a visit to an amusement park is a must for an authentic American experience, complete with cut-off t-shirts, cotton candy, and blaring music.

Cristine - Welcome back to the US! Looks like you guys are having a blast! And you should definitely try the alligator…we used to eat it all the time in Louisiana! :)

Oma - Yeah for plush carpet, sunshine, everything BIG, and Grandcestors!! Welcome home kids!

Monica - Great post! My girls LOVED that dolphin show (better than Shamu) and Sea World. You explained coming back to the states SO perfectly. Thanks for the updates and Ryan has that same blue suit as I think Elise?? Maybe Lucy… :) Welcome back to the USA friend!

Jordan - Welcome home, guys! I’m a bit sad you’re back…I would sometimes live vicariously through your blog and photos when you guys were still in Germany! ;) It is a funny thing…to have to re-acclimate yourself to the place you grew up, isn’t it? We’ll have been home for 2 years in August, and I find that I miss Europe more by the day. I truly left a little part of myself in that beautiful place. Enjoy being home and the time with your family! As always, I enjoyed your post and wonderful photos!

Jessica - Ahhhh! I love your blog. And we’re not too far away from you now. Georgia and Florida touch! Although I don’t know exactly where Tallahassee is. I love your stories of how your kids responded to the differences in the countries. Things I would never know or think about (I’ve never been to Europe). Can’t wait to read more about your adventures.

Miranda - What an interesting thing to be going from Europe back to the US! I loved reading this post and seeing what your family is up to. I love the pictures!! The girls are SO cute and just growing up so fast. Hope the rest of your adventures go well!

Mary Anne - I think you will always be good tourists no matter where you go! I realized as I read this though that I’m not 100% positive where you guys are ending up. I wouldn’t have guessed Florida…was that just a stopping point? What a fun vacation!

Becky - As I stumbled to the bathroom in the dark at 2:00 AM, I put my palm to the wall and tried to find the switch with my thumb. Wait, I’m back home in Germany. This light switch confusion moment made me think of you and your stabbed hand.

Pete Mitchell - What a great blog, I have really enjoyed your posts and pictures. Keep them coming.

A Family Tradition

We liked the Eis Cafe before we moved off-post, but our real love affair began when we moved to our house just a couple blocks away. At first we just ordered cones at the window (gelato for only 60 cents a scoop is hard to pass up!) Then we started going inside and sitting down occasionally, but we still just ordered a few scoops. I don’t know how it really started – maybe it was when Brad found out he could order Italian hot chocolate, or maybe it was when Annika ordered her first “snowman,” or maybe it was the first time we got a hot waffle with banana gelato on top during the winter, but we were no longer content with just a couple of scoops, and the Eis Cafe became a regular part of our weekly routine.

We became regular customers, and started visiting the Eis Cafe every Monday after family home evening. We developed a relationship with the family that runs the gelato shop, and since we have been visiting regularly since at least the twins were born, they watched our kids grow up. Annika learned how to order in German (although they understand our English just fine) and her confidence grew – she was always the first to order with “Ich hatte gern schneeman mit erdbeer und chocolate.” She took this responsibility seriously, but her eyes were beaming. As soon as Lucy and Elise could talk well enough they had their own opinions about ice cream as well, and they would not settle for boring single scoops anymore. They almost always order a “schneeman” (snowman) with their sister, but sometimes mix it up with pinocchio, spaghetti eis, or mickey mouse. Elise likes banana and raspberry, and Lucy likes strawberry. Once Brad tasted the Pernigotti Italian hot chocolate it has been rare for him to order anything else (and Baumholder weather is rarely warm enough to make hot chocolate impractical.) Even when he doesn’t come with us, our friend Giovonni is ready with a take-away cup of amaretto hot chocolate for me to take home to him. The hot chocolate is so thick it is the consistency of a melted chocolate bar and must be eaten with a spoon. Which makes it wonderful for eating with ice cream or on top of a waffle. As for me, I can never decide. I vacillate between banana splits, spaghetti eis, waffle cones, and the house specialty. With so many options, how can I settle?

We have the book “Alexander Who’s Not (Do You Hear Me? I Mean It!) Going to Move!” by Judith Viorst. It’s been popular in our house as our moving date approaches. In the book, Alexander’s Dad advises him to go and say goodbye to all of his favorite places. We’ve been saying goodbye to our favorite places too. While we will probably visit the Eis Cafe a couple more times before we fly out, I brought my camera last time to document this family tradition of ours. I don’t know how much of Europe our kids will remember as they grow up, but I have the feeling they might not forget the Eis Cafe.

Pouring over the menu

So hard to wait. . .

The Schneeman, Pernigotti, and Panciera Becker

Digging in . . .

This picture is an older one, but before the Archers left, we had a kind passer-by take a picture of our families with Giovonni, who has served us gelato for 4 years now. He is so patient with our girls, and makes us feel like family. The picture is a little blurry and at a funny angle (which sometimes happens when hand random people your camera) but I love it.

 

Cristine - LOVE this post! I miss Baumholder so much. The Eis Cafe is awesome!

Mary Anne - I loved this post so very much! I wish we had an Eis Cafe in our town. How fun that you made it into such a wonderful tradition. Mmmm…

Jessica - I haven’t been reading blogs much lately. Then I went on and saw your post and realized…I’ve missed your beautiful pictures and your fun European adventures. Where are you off to next?? Your girls are getting so big!

Mckenzie - Great now I have to find somewhere that can serve me a waffle with banana icecream. You know how hard that’s gonna be in Texas? :)

Brown-Eyed Girls

I just put the twins down for a nap in the one bedroom of our small hotel room that we’ve called home since this Sunday. Our stuff is all gone, we’ve turned over the keys to our house, and we sold our Civic yesterday. The kids had final dentist appointments this morning, Brad is finishing up things at work, and we just dropped off the last of our 220 volt appliances at the thrift store. Our suitcases are mostly packed, and we are ready to go. Come this Tuesday, we will be saying goodbye to Germany, and getting on a plane for the United States.

Life in a hotel is not my favorite, but we’ve been doing ok. The kids have a few of their toys, and we’ve been going outside rain or shine (mostly rain.) We’ve played play dough, baked cookies, painted toenails, rode scooters, played in the bathtub, put together puzzles, done A LOT of coloring, and watched far more TV than we’re accustomed to. I’ve had lots of time with my girls, which is a good thing. They really are funny, smart, and sweet – even though they scream and cry much more than I’d like.

After baths yesterday, I threw them down on the bed, and after some good tickling, pulled out my camera and macro lens. All this free time in the hotel means I’ve had my camera out more and its been fun for me to play too. For a while we thought that Lucy and Elise might have blue or green eyes, but that is not the case. We’ve got three brown-eyed heartbreakers in our house. Aren’t they beautiful? Bonus points if you can figure out who is who.

 

Monica - I am almost positive the second one is Anni. The other two are guesses. Elise first, Lucy third?? By the way I am a little sad you are in the hotel b/c that means you are going to be SOOOOO close to me in just a few days but not close enough to get to hang out. Dang David!! :) Hope the time in the hotel goes quickly. That’s hard for any age but especially 2 toddlers!!!

Cristine - Hotels can be hard but it is also nice having that time to just play and not worry about all the stuff that needs to happen when you are at home! :) I can’t believe you guys are leaving Germany… very bittersweet! We miss Germany so much! Hope you guys have safe travels! Oh, and I think the middle one is Anni. Beyond that I’m stumped. :) BEAUTIFUL GIRLS!!!!!

Becky - I agree with Monica on Anni being the second picture. But since I can’t tell Elise and Lucy apart full faced, I give up.

I am SO GLAD I will not be around when you board that plane. It’s hard to even consider. I seem to remember being mushy when Jeff and Tammy left, too. What is it with you Hollands?

Britteny - Their eyes look so much alike buy I think I still have it. Elise, Annika, then Lucy. I really think I have it. I will be totally disappointed if Iman .wrong